Sunday, October 18, 2009

Getting ready for a date vs dating

WellI have been thinking about how fun it really is to get ready for a date. Maybe a bit fairytalish about dressing up for the ball and being noticed and respected. The expectations, the excitement and then the event.
I must admit - I like dressing up in heels and dresses and looking HOT.
Well maybe not as hot as at 20.
And I like the attention and the event of dating.
I like learning about new people and new things and sometimes feel like I am interviewing the prospects about their values. but overall, I like dating.. until I actually have to decide if there will be a second or third date.
What is that?
II would like your opinion about the energy of getting ready for dating vs the the energy expended on the date and how the expectations meet the reality.